June 16, 2023

2023, Baltimore, Baltimore Counseling, Baltimore Therapy, Charm City, Connection, Emotional Health, Individuals, Maryland, Mental Health, Mental Wellness, Psychotherapy, Self Compassion, Self Care, Vulnerability, Well-Being

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Brainspotting vs. EMDR | Best Trauma Treatment?

There are some issues that we cannot simply talk ourselves out of. The part of our brain that thinks in verbal language and uses logic to solve problems is distinct from the area of our brain where we process emotions. This means that in order to move past deep-seated trauma and other difficult emotional wounds, we must intervene on the physical and emotional subcortical level as well as on the logical, neocortical level.

Brainspotting (BSP) and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) Therapy both facilitate emotional processing and help us to see ourselves, others, and the world around us in a new light. Read on to learn more about both modalities and which one may be right for you.

Brainspotting vs. EMDR | Best Trauma Treatment?

May 19, 2023

2023, Baltimore, Baltimore Counseling, Baltimore Therapy, Black Unicorn, Charm City, Connection, Creatives, Free Thinkers, Individuals, Maryland, Mental Health, Mental Wellness, Rebels, Risk Takers, Self Compassion, Vulnerability, Well-Being

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Embracing Intersectionality: A Therapeutic ...

Have you ever labeled yourself as the “black sheep” of your family, workplace, or somewhere where you’re “supposed” to naturally belong? The Black Unicorn highlights how intersectionality is an ongoing process that requires individuals to navigate and balance the multiple dimensions of their identity. Society often places marginalized individuals where they have to prove their worthiness, which can be a burdensome and exhausting experience. This expectation disregards the fullness of their experiences and reduces their identities to a single narrative, overshadowing their resilience, joy, and other aspects of their lives. This blog post, written by Susan Stork, located in Baltimore, Maryland, explores the four main qualities of a black unicorn and how we can harness our individuality into our superpower.

August 31, 2022

2021, Baltimore Therapy, Baltimore Counseling, Baltimore Couples Therapy, Baltimore Washington, Charm City, Couples Counseling, Couples Therapy, Esther Perel, PACT, relationships, Self Care, Stan Tatkin, Vulnerability

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Has Anything Changed? Addressing the National ...

In 2021, Space between counseling posted a blog addressing the national shortage of couple therapists. Did anything change? Are there more couple therapists now? Since the pandemic hit, therapists, counselors, psychologists, and social workers have been seeking to address the concerns and needs of couples with relational concerns. But what happened? Why was the pandemic a catalyst for relational problems? It seems the pandemic, and subsequent shelter-in-place mandates, have served as a catalyst for relational issues and in some way forced couples to spend time with their emotions.

In this blog post, we explore some of the reasons for a shortage in couples therapists, reveal evidence based theoretical orientations for relationship counseling, advise clients on how to search for an ideal fit couples therapist, and provide resources and recommendations for those who are stuck on waiting lists to be seen.

Has Anything Changed? Addressing the National Shortage of Couples Therapists

August 9, 2022

2022, Mental Health, Mental Wellness, post therapy hangover, Psychotherapy, Self Care, Vulnerability, Well-Being

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Therapy Hangovers & Post Therapy Self-Care

Have you ever had a therapy session when you left feeling exhausted, emotionally drained, and unable to do much for the rest of the day? Has it made you wonder if the therapy isn’t working? In this blog post, written by our Graduate student intern, Sehar Palla, we explore what is therapy hangover, why it happens and some helpful post-therapy self-care strategies.

August 2, 2022

2020, Stress, secure-functioning, relationships, Psychotherapy, Mindfulness, PACT, Mental Health, Anxiety, Awareness, Baltimore, Baltimore Counseling, Baltimore Couples Therapy, Baltimore Therapy, Baltimore Washington, Charm City, Connection, Vulnerability, Transitions

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Neuroception – Our Subconscious Ability to ...

Dr. Stephen Porges has coined the term “neuroception”, which describes how our neural circuits distinguish whether stimuli are safe or dangerous. While this phenomemon is innate and serves to protect us, sometimes traumatic experiences result in faulty neuroception - which causes individuals to perceive a situation to be harmful, even if there is no presence of a threat. This post explores the implications of polyvagal theory, stress responses, and neuroception.

Free Thinkers

12 Ways to Start Being Your Own Best Friend

When our life circumstances change, our friends often change with them. Cross-country moves introduce us to new social groups; coupledom expands our inner circles; and parenthood fosters additional bonds. Gone are the days when our closest confidants were just a short drive away. Now, get-togethers are planned months in advance and frequent flier miles are racked up with regularity.

But what about being a good friend to ourselves? We put heart and soul into our sisterhoods (and brotherhoods!) but can forget that it starts with being kind to the fresh face we greet in the mirror each morning.

Self-compassion or treating yourself with the same kindness as you would a close friend, can radically change the way you relate to yourself. Check out these 12 tips for doling out some serious self-love.

You’re a Black Unicorn, Not a Black Sheep

Have you ever labeled yourself as the “black sheep” or “scapegoat” of your family, your workplace, or somewhere else where you’re “supposed” to naturally belong?

In my office, so many of my clients use this phrase to describe themselves. (And, I admit, I’ve used it myself to talk about whether I felt I fit into various groups too.) There’s something I find when we look closer at how and why we use these terms, however, and it has a lot to do with shame and how we feel we’re being judged by other people.

In my office, I often ask: What if you weren’t a black sheep? What if you were a black unicorn? Or a yellow, blue, or rainbow unicorn?